The Big Leap

Gay Hendricks

            The Big Leap shows how to overcome the fears and tendencies that stand in the path of success. We sabotage our dreams and Hendricks gives practical solutions to avoid these.

Enjoy Life By Not Being Your Own Worst Enemy

People who take big leaps make most out of their life while those stuck in fear continue to complain about their life. Take control of your life and do away with all excuses. Confidence and willingness can help to take the big leaps.

Don’t Be Afraid Of Happiness

We spend a lot of time and energy to achieve happiness. But we are not comfortable relishing the feeling of happiness or peace. We are not taught to deal with success and happiness.  We often resist happiness due to the fear of achieving full potential but confidence is very important to lead a life of happiness. One technique of breaking fear is breathing. Focused breathing can transform fear into positive and powerful energy. This helps a lot when you have a stage performance.

Overcome Upper-Limit Mindset

The upper-limit mindset is the feeling that you can attain only a certain level of happiness. Thus, you will feel uncomfortable during a period of success. So you start to create obstacles in life.  This is a routine form of self-sabotage. Usually, people tend to create problems in areas that are separate from their success. When you have a successful professional life, you might have problems in your love life. You must not sacrifice one for another.

Let Go Of Your Useless Worries

Catching yourself when you start to worry is a way to recognize an upper-limit mindset. Question the source of worry. If you have control over the source, take action rather than worrying. Questioning the worries will make us realize that most of them are not real problems and thus focus more on how we can overcome them.

Find Out What You Love to Do as Success Lies in the Zone of Genius

When you do something that you love, you get immersed and you lose track of time. For this, you need to work in the zone of genius or be perfectly suited to the job for you. You might be afraid of finding such a job as then you will have no excuse not to be the best at work. To get rid of this fear, repeat you’re the affirmation that you will dedicate all your energy to this zone of genius. Staying true to your genius helps to find clarity. Pay close attention to things that bring a state of flow. This will help in finding what you want to do.

Use a Success Mantra

To move forward in your Zone of Genius, a success mantra helps a lot. Repeating a mantra is a form of meditation. It will focus your attention, energy, mind, and body into the words. Meditating for multiple hours every day brings the best results. After memorizing the mantra, learn to use Enlightened No which helps to avoid things that do not align with your Zone of Genius. It helps to stay focused by asking yourself whether it is necessary. Thus, you will not be sidetracked and distracted.

Stop Complaining and Don’t Let Problems Grow

Take control of time rather than being at mercy of it. Acknowledge that you are in control. Take responsibility and control the aspects of life you were avoiding. When you avoid responsibilities, the small problems in life will only get worse. Enforcing a complaint diet is another way to control time. We spend a lot of time complaining about life. To understand the real extent, observe the conversations of your colleagues and notice how many complaints they have. Point out and explain that complaining does not solve any issue. Most of us complain that we don’t have enough time, but if you stop complaining and start work, you will have an abundance of time.

Success Can Create Relationship Problems Especially Those Who Avoid Responsibilities

When you are successful professionally or in other areas, relationship challenges are common. Studies have shown that financial success can bring relationship problems. Most often highly successful people choose work over love. Avoiding projection is a way to improve relationships. Projection occurs when you avoid responsibility and blame others for personal issues. For a successful relationship, each other should take full responsibility for their lives and not blame the other for their shortcomings. Support each other. Life’s too short to fight over petty issues.

People tend to believe that they only deserve limited happiness and success. Take a big leap to fulfil your potential. Then you will realize that there are no limits. Happiness and success are unlimited for a person who is willing to overcome their challenges. Discard everything that you don’t need in your success.

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